tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post3086615693056188697..comments2024-01-06T04:19:07.616-08:00Comments on Real Social Dynamics Blog: The Joys of Being On The "Y-List"Tyler-Real Social Dynamicshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06957018105278795280noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-61037283159159504172007-09-02T14:01:00.000-07:002007-09-02T14:01:00.000-07:00Nice one Tyler, you've really gone through a great...Nice one Tyler, you've really gone through a great process. But doesn't it remind you of how you started off in project hollywood? Don't we all seek value, trying to improve our own life's and make it more liveable?<BR/><BR/>Love'n PeaceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-13848139361577896582007-05-23T14:18:00.000-07:002007-05-23T14:18:00.000-07:00Hey Tyler,I just found your blog. This article rin...Hey Tyler,<BR/><BR/>I just found your blog. <BR/><BR/>This article rings true to me in a sort of unnerving-type of way. I guess I have a question about the idea of aligning with people who can make you better...<BR/><BR/>I've taken steps in the recent past to try and align with folks who DO have that information that can make me better, specifically in the dating community--because I know that if you want to be the best you have to surround yourself with the best. <BR/><BR/>However, your post from this P.O.V. makes me think that to do that is in some way ingenuine or dishonest. <BR/><BR/>How would you recommend someone go about aligning with the people one wants to align with? Of course, I'm only interested in those who i think I would be able to get along with and be friends with, but there's a definite gap between getting the information you want and becoming friends with a person. <BR/><BR/>Should one be direct or is it better to go indirect? For example, if I wanted to meet Joe PUG, my way of getting to know him would naturally be to demonstrate value by making it a business proposition, and seeing if things work out. Is that ingenuine? <BR/><BR/>The only other way I can think of doing such things is to just get so good on your own that they take notice of you, but there's no telling if that will work either. <BR/><BR/>It was a good post, got me thinking. <BR/><BR/>Best of luck,<BR/><BR/><BR/>ShamblesShambleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11037787623954940062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-64145675402115290072007-05-14T13:28:00.000-07:002007-05-14T13:28:00.000-07:00Hey,I'm starting to gain ZZZ status here and every...Hey,<BR/><BR/>I'm starting to gain ZZZ status here and everytime I go out I have people always trying to get me to prove to them who I truly am. Now, I used to love it. I loved the attention. (and secretly I still do)<BR/><BR/>But sometimes it gets to me. Like I'll be in a room with a couple puas and they'll all be like "go kclose that chick." If I don't I'll read some shit later on saying "that guy didn't even kclose... that guy is such a fag." I'm always on spot. <BR/><BR/>"Let me just watch you."<BR/><BR/>"do this routine. do that"<BR/><BR/>I posted a post on your website basically saying a lot of guys are imitating me lately. They'll even use stories about my childhood and things that happened to me. <BR/><BR/>I absolutely love it (saracas) when guys start trying to correct me in field. An obvious KJ telling me I'm doing this and this wrong.<BR/><BR/>Whatever... just rantingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-78297139625020959952007-05-12T23:17:00.000-07:002007-05-12T23:17:00.000-07:00I totally get this post but at the same time, you ...I totally get this post but at the same time, you reap what you sow.<BR/> If you treat guys who are interested in LEARNING something from you like crap, then of course you make them haters.<BR/> If you go around with a holier than thou attitude, then you're the hater.<BR/> But... if the guys act like weirdos then you have no choice but to be a little bit of a dick.<BR/><BR/> I also get what you say about friends. The thing about that is that friends who are in this game are not true friends. They're in this for skills, money, power, etc.<BR/> The test of friendship is if they stick by you through highs and lows.<BR/> Alot of my PUA buddies have either dropped off the earth or become so enamored with themselves that that they no longer talk to me or some of our old mutual friends.<BR/> That's sad. But its reality, my friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-17340310965927229302007-05-11T20:32:00.000-07:002007-05-11T20:32:00.000-07:00Loved the post,i would definatly advise your frien...Loved the post,<BR/><BR/>i would definatly advise your friends against the Reality TV idea. As someone with quite a bit of experience in that area, the word Reality is an open joke. And the "The Game" combined with Beauty and the Geek style makeover shows have spawned enough interest that there will be a glut of these shows out. The reinvention of the batchelor/joe millionaier/for love or money world but with a Punked look. With the network owning the rights hundreds of hours of your best work. (they will love the contracts). Keep it real, and not reality.Dave Blasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16624438279509266449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-21134440025402102232007-05-11T19:48:00.000-07:002007-05-11T19:48:00.000-07:00The only thing I would tell you, if I saw you, is ...The only thing I would tell you, if I saw you, is that I appreciate all the free articles you've written which have helped me for real, and that I enjoy and get a lot out of reading the Blog.<BR/><BR/>All the best for the future.<BR/><BR/>JosephAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-40805658956077913142007-05-11T07:33:00.000-07:002007-05-11T07:33:00.000-07:00Keep going strong man! :)Keep going strong man! :)Patrik Ljungkvisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16963973657566192828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-81253557910848313692007-05-11T06:20:00.000-07:002007-05-11T06:20:00.000-07:00Great article!Thanks!Great article!<BR/><BR/>Thanks!Ivanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04111574017668877896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-9944819278343479072007-05-10T19:57:00.000-07:002007-05-10T19:57:00.000-07:00my goodness that was long. nice introspection. bra...my goodness that was long. nice introspection. bravo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-12288352998221367602007-05-10T14:12:00.000-07:002007-05-10T14:12:00.000-07:00You know what else is strange? I go out and I hea...You know what else is strange? I go out and I hear, "dude, you so look like Tyler!" all the time.<BR/><BR/>Ugh. Like, if I were in Ireland would people say this?<BR/><BR/>I tolerate it as long as people don't think I'm trying to imitate you (which you can totally see some lame community guy doing!)<BR/><BR/>We met last year btw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-45122930685273241222007-05-10T13:18:00.000-07:002007-05-10T13:18:00.000-07:00hi tyleri totally understand where u r coming frm....hi tyler<BR/>i totally understand where u r coming frm. personally i was a high-visibility guy and ppl used to talk a lot abt me and that disturbed me. so i can understand the way u feel.i know u can handle it...<BR/>what i did was to to reaffirm to myself that i didnt care what ppl THOUGHT, SAID or DID.<BR/>i understand that reactions can be bad on the boards but u know what they do it to everybody. i took a class and the students were supposed to give feedback. i did a wonderful job but there were negative feedbacks too. these days the community is submerged with negative comments (atleast in my reality)SO TAKE IT EASY :) ENJOY.<BR/>thanks for writing.Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14572331127641606995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-82196361772167596632007-05-10T11:06:00.001-07:002007-05-10T11:06:00.001-07:00Tyler,Amazing. This has to be the most humble and ...Tyler,<BR/><BR/>Amazing. This has to be the most humble and real post I've read from you. Which is to say a lot.<BR/><BR/>Considering I see myself in the close future being more and more in the spotlight (in non-pu related areas) it comes as a golden nugget of advice.<BR/><BR/>Thank you Tyler.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-91225707401556962792007-05-10T11:06:00.000-07:002007-05-10T11:06:00.000-07:00I enjoyed this article, it was real.The HittmanI enjoyed this article, it was real.<BR/><BR/>The HittmanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-38091788572973651512007-05-10T08:42:00.000-07:002007-05-10T08:42:00.000-07:00I think to an extent we all see our friends as peo...I think to an extent we all see our friends as people who can do stuff for us, even if it's just make us feel good when we hang out with them.<BR/><BR/>I can probably speak for RichBristol, Saad, and Andy J, as well as myself, when I say that the reason we are pleased to see you when you come into town isn't because of what we think you can do for us, it's because of what you HAVE done.<BR/><BR/>Like if RSD crumbled and you were left on the streets without a penny to your name, there must be a LOT of guys who would put you up with no thought of reward. I don't think that has to happen for anyone to be able to tell the difference.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-33640275428233416532007-05-10T04:45:00.000-07:002007-05-10T04:45:00.000-07:00Reality show???????o my gosh i can already see hor...Reality show???????o my gosh i can already see hordes of newbies crowd the clubs with stupid lines...can an average Poooa like me with 3 years of field experience survive against dozens of good looking novices??yo'll discover it in the next instalment!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-9878547507099499862007-05-10T03:11:00.000-07:002007-05-10T03:11:00.000-07:00Really interesting read, thanks!Really interesting read, thanks!tfflhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12936860617497863376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-89525736886632068102007-05-10T01:56:00.000-07:002007-05-10T01:56:00.000-07:00Good shit, having trust issues and finding people ...Good shit, having trust issues and finding people who'd hang with you if u didn't have the status is definitely what most people go through.<BR/><BR/>-JimSmithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-56666749944719078962007-05-09T20:11:00.000-07:002007-05-09T20:11:00.000-07:00I really admire how you can put your real thoughts...I really admire how you can put your real thoughts on here. <BR/><BR/>Wish I was that free<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>KZAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-22740793444268854612007-05-09T18:09:00.000-07:002007-05-09T18:09:00.000-07:00kind of a mindfuck. great read. keep doin' your th...kind of a mindfuck. great read. keep doin' your thing man. <BR/><BR/>finished up eckhart tolle's book. so so so good. inner/outer and whatever else game is just solid. <BR/><BR/>live and loveGreg Hunthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17404519076862028696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-53134136376571765322007-05-09T17:30:00.000-07:002007-05-09T17:30:00.000-07:00TD,I thought that this was great. It's especially ...TD,<BR/><BR/>I thought that this was great. It's especially helpful to know that it's not easy at the top in the sense that it's comforting to know that there ALWAYS will be challenges. I suppose the trick is to enjoy them. I feel like I'm starting coming into my own and watching people's reactions to me change. And so instead of adapting to those changes I'll keep on with a full HEAD of steam.<BR/><BR/>-FridayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-40270701383286490692007-05-09T17:09:00.000-07:002007-05-09T17:09:00.000-07:00I can identify with a lot of what you've said. It'...I can identify with a lot of what you've said. It's crazy how big the seduction community has gotten. Anyway thanks for the very enlightening post.<BR/><BR/>drewAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-86292255332724747452007-05-09T16:44:00.000-07:002007-05-09T16:44:00.000-07:00"I'll have a guy show up and say "Are you Tyler??"..."I'll have a guy show up and say "Are you Tyler??" and when I say yes he'll start jumping up and down and like 15 guys will jump out of NOWHERE like the Robin Hood band of "Merry Men" and start snapping pictures and striking poses."<BR/><BR/>Ha that's funny as hell. <BR/><BR/>We would love to see you get more popular. Do what you feel is best only when you are ready for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-36838660222137518752007-05-09T15:47:00.000-07:002007-05-09T15:47:00.000-07:00Very honest, well written expression. Thoroughly ...Very honest, well written expression. Thoroughly enjoyableAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-55553631952723599272007-05-09T15:32:00.000-07:002007-05-09T15:32:00.000-07:00Good for you, but this article doesn't help me to ...Good for you, but this article doesn't help me to get chicks:P<BR/><BR/>Damn, you are right I'm one of those value takers... Just like you was!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-4534683376548602712007-05-09T15:28:00.000-07:002007-05-09T15:28:00.000-07:00Great post my friend, great post. In fact i think...Great post my friend, great post. In fact i think posts like these help to downplay the infallible image people create in their minds.<BR/><BR/>cheers,<BR/>WPJDangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10739111985364694394noreply@blogger.com