tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post6591341880155274428..comments2024-01-06T04:19:07.616-08:00Comments on Real Social Dynamics Blog: Positivity And State Conditioning -- Why Seeing The Good In Yourself, Your Experiences, And Other People Makes You A More Potent DudeTyler-Real Social Dynamicshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06957018105278795280noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-7085480694918973712009-03-20T09:52:00.000-07:002009-03-20T09:52:00.000-07:00Highly doubtful that women find positive, upbeat g...Highly doubtful that women find positive, upbeat guys more attractive. Every hear of the term "Byronic"? It means brooding, dark, emotionally volatile, etc, often unsmiling and sightly aggressive, etc, you know the rest. Yet women are irresistably drawn to this type of "bad-boy" who is very far from being upbeat - in fact Byronic is a recognized category of attractive male. <BR/><BR/>I have picked up some of my hottest lays when I was in a bad, unsmiling mood, by the way. But I've also done pretty decent when I was happy and upbeat.<BR/><BR/>So I guess neither makes much difference, as long as you are being "authentic" - confident.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-28422496047938666742009-03-10T14:35:00.000-07:002009-03-10T14:35:00.000-07:00This is my third time re-reading this article. I h...This is my third time re-reading this article. I have noticed my state is more positive in general now, so I cam back to read this again. This article can be read over and over for a long time, you just keep getting stuff from it. Or as Tyler says, it re-connects you with that good awesome mindset and vibe. <BR/><BR/>PS. Tyler should put all his blog posts into a book. I get scared that RSD blog will be taken down one day and I wont be able to re-read blog articles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-53752112007362725002009-01-12T01:12:00.000-08:002009-01-12T01:12:00.000-08:00I agree. To the most, its just about your mental s...I agree. To the most, its just about your mental state man, for example sometimes good music puts you on a high. <BR/>Positive people, are just OD'ing on life man, They're high on life. As if life is a psychedelic drug which infuses happiness and goodwill in them.Suhelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15139950684373874738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-69366658463742105372008-12-25T12:31:00.000-08:002008-12-25T12:31:00.000-08:00Wow, this article really resonated with me. I've r...Wow, this article really resonated with me. I've really fallen into a negativity default-mode lately. What you said about the sugar buzz you get from shit-talking really struck a chord.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-17339980882575924922008-12-17T13:15:00.000-08:002008-12-17T13:15:00.000-08:00You really are a philosopher. This is an article I...You really are a philosopher. This is an article I come back to regularly. I wanted to update you to say I've shared this article with a few friends (men and women), and everyone I've shared this with has learned from it. And they thanked me for bringing it to their attention. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>ChristianAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-53702952084934223362008-12-09T07:26:00.000-08:002008-12-09T07:26:00.000-08:00Tyler - its good to see you are continuing to evol...Tyler - its good to see you are continuing to evolve way beyond the "community" mindset and setting the standard for holistic life improvement. Its what keeps me coming back after all these years. Looking forward to your book. <BR/><BR/>-CDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-17951392479059833092008-12-08T07:55:00.000-08:002008-12-08T07:55:00.000-08:00Great Post.Great Post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-52165852925531393862008-12-01T16:45:00.000-08:002008-12-01T16:45:00.000-08:00Hey,Its Bobby Rio from TSB Magazine. We met last m...Hey,<BR/><BR/>Its Bobby Rio from TSB Magazine. We met last month in LA for a bit... wish we had an opportunity to talk longer. <BR/><BR/>I love the direction you've been going in with your writing and was was wondering how I could get in touch with about possibly doing an interview. I can't find your contact info.<BR/><BR/>You can get in touch with me at bobby (at) tsbmagazine.com<BR/><BR/>look forward to hearing from you.<BR/><BR/>Bobby RioAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-31087386992790080422008-11-30T11:58:00.000-08:002008-11-30T11:58:00.000-08:00last night was crappy so today i was thinking the ...last night was crappy so today i was thinking the whole positivity topic. then i check your blog and here it is...<BR/>thanks man, u are fantasticUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357627314587866367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-55403770224424830662008-11-19T08:36:00.000-08:002008-11-19T08:36:00.000-08:00Thank you Owen!! i got soooo much out of this!! Am...Thank you Owen!! i got soooo much out of this!! Amazing!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-4505381884350217142008-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:002008-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:00Thanks, Tyler....just Thank you.Thanks, Tyler....just Thank you.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05265348763433643802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-8789576352772064712008-11-06T17:55:00.000-08:002008-11-06T17:55:00.000-08:00Tyler,Your writing inspires a lot of thought in me...Tyler,<BR/><BR/>Your writing inspires a lot of thought in me. Thank you for enlightening me on the subject of positivity. I wish you the best; your light shines.<BR/><BR/>Christian<BR/><BR/>P.S. I can't wait for The Blueprint. If your past work foreshadows the future, it will be a national bestseller.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-80439756049660186192008-11-06T09:02:00.000-08:002008-11-06T09:02:00.000-08:00This got me wondering if Tyler is familiar with To...This got me wondering if Tyler is familiar with Tonglen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-55023587809442214672008-11-06T05:06:00.000-08:002008-11-06T05:06:00.000-08:00A lot of value in this article!A lot of value in this article!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-47078835377733401182008-11-05T16:55:00.000-08:002008-11-05T16:55:00.000-08:00amazing post, tyler!resonated with me on so many l...amazing post, tyler!<BR/><BR/>resonated with me on so many levels!<BR/><BR/>thanks a lot,<BR/><BR/>masonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-159248526734746712008-11-03T23:08:00.000-08:002008-11-03T23:08:00.000-08:00"As you become “socially stronger” one of the bigg..."As you become “socially stronger” one of the biggest issues becomes relating to people on a level that makes them feel good. Oftentimes people will initially “like you” because they respond to status as a knee jerk reaction. But if you don’t reciprocate a genuine interest, it leaves them with a feeling of lingering mistrust."<BR/><BR/>God da*! Thats so right on the ball i cant even express it. I had this really weird life situation a few months ago where all my friends (that i made in university bars and clubs) started to flake on me in one way or another. I couldn't understand it cause the first 2 months i was the most baller guy in the place....then it just faded. I figured you just cant emotionally pump everyone all the time, and your bound to not be friends with everyone.....little did i know that i just really didn't give a fuck about people genuinely, i just liked the reactions i was getting. <BR/><BR/>Long rant...Sum it up; insightful stuff, good stuff, positive stuffBelzububhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15316270544519608821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-55232289982596788732008-11-03T03:14:00.000-08:002008-11-03T03:14:00.000-08:00wow i survived ,nice readwow i survived ,nice readAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-36985118653617116852008-11-02T14:58:00.000-08:002008-11-02T14:58:00.000-08:00Intensely enlightening. You've been self help Tyle...Intensely enlightening. You've been self help Tyler all along, haven't you :)<BR/><BR/>/Kakánr1Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-62406403821634540272008-11-02T11:19:00.000-08:002008-11-02T11:19:00.000-08:00Definitely one of the biggest things without a dou...Definitely one of the biggest things without a doubt. It's funny how rediculous the mind is...Ive been laughing lately at how elusive your mind can be as far as thinking positive. if you've conditioned yourself into thinkin negatively for so long your mind doesnt want to give it up! Its so rediculous hahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-82669526042379839782008-11-02T08:16:00.000-08:002008-11-02T08:16:00.000-08:00muchas gracias senior great stuff - love it.muchas gracias senior <BR/><BR/>great stuff - love it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-38004624782862758492008-11-02T07:08:00.000-08:002008-11-02T07:08:00.000-08:00Love it..!Love it..!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-62273273862067902352008-11-01T17:18:00.000-07:002008-11-01T17:18:00.000-07:00Tyler, I am so grateful to you that you pointe...Tyler,<BR/><BR/> I am so grateful to you that you pointed out the fact that you can get to the point where you freak out about trying to be positive where trying to be positive and not feeling it puts you into an even worse mood. That's something I started to learn last summer... and the reminder was SO NEEDED!!! I tend to be a perfectionist, and sometimes I can be like, "Dammit! Why am I not overflowing with some fucking nimbus right now!!!" But it's so comforting to know that I don't have to stress about it. That I'm a positive guy at my core and if I'm simply "not feeling it," I know it will come back because that's just who I am. Thank you. *cyber hug* -AaronAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-35390384125986262142008-11-01T17:13:00.000-07:002008-11-01T17:13:00.000-07:00You're so fucking money...Great post man :).You're so fucking money...<BR/><BR/>Great post man :).Halffullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306528558984229222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-71006371695687426042008-11-01T10:36:00.000-07:002008-11-01T10:36:00.000-07:00One of your best, Tyler :-) I especially like tha...One of your best, Tyler :-) I especially like that you addressed the issue of gossip cuz it's such a "tell" about where people are in their self-development. I have trained myself, if ever I feel the temptation to do it, to talk directly to the person I'm tempted to gossip about. This disciplines me to address areas of discomfort head-on instead of indirectly. When you only talk positively about others (because you are sincerely seeing the positive in them and are addressing negative behaviors directly), people know they can trust you.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for another enlightening post.<BR/><BR/>- Erika (www.awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com)Erika Awakening, TAPsmarter.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11156465256391844378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37394673.post-18942186454010185582008-11-01T06:27:00.000-07:002008-11-01T06:27:00.000-07:00Tyler, you are one of the most impressing people o...Tyler, you are one of the most impressing people out there, thank you so much!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com