Expanding Your Reality

So I want to talk today about the idea of "Expanding Your Reality".

You guys might have noticed I haven't posted much about "tactics and techniques" lately, and that's because I've covered it top to bottom in the "Foundations" DVDs and written over 4000 articles on the topic.

At this point, my entire focus is on cultivating that sort of raw, authentic personal power -- and then integrating that with the other stuff I've been doing.

Is it going well?

Yes, it's going incredibly well.

I'm about 2 years off where I want to be -- but that's because the potential I'm seeing is just so off-the-charts ridiculous.

To me this is a spiritual thing.

It has nothing to do with money or props. I've given that up long ago -- and had to in order to reach a higher mindstate.

Only an INSTRINSTIC motivation can push me to the level I'm shooting for. Anything other than that is a useless burden pulling me down.

Honestly, I sometimes wonder what's happened to me. I'm so far disconnected from a lot of core social conditioning that I usually feel most people I'm talking to are in a totally different zone than I am.

Bear in mind I love them anyway. I feel a sort of kinship with all people based on common humanity, as strange as that sounds.

I guess I just feel that most people don't think for themselves. There are certain core truths of the world that they don't see, and I'm blown away by the fact that they don't want more for themselves.

To me this stuff is so obvious. The WORLD and LIFE is there for the taking.

It's ticking away a second at a time........

What is life about?

It's about having the deepest, richest experience possible -- and leaving an imprint on the world after you're gone.

I don't really view human beings and the world as being separate. I don't view people heirarchically or as having more value than one another either.

All people and the world are a web, and if you tug on one thread the entire structure is shaken.

There are recognizable, identifiable rhythms and patterns you can tune into to in order to move through the world WITH the current instead of AGAINST it.

You see people who live in pain and frustration and scarcity, and you can see that they're caught up with themselves that they've kicked themselves out of the flux.

They're doing things in such a scarcity, reaction based mindset that there's just no way out.

The failure that the vast majority of guys experience with women, for example, is just a symptom of that larger problem.

Like, how is it that people can watch a movie like "Fight Club" and not instantly decide to give it all up in pursuit of something greater??

Is it not OBVIOUS that this movie has answers??

If you're not deeply, deeply satisfied with your life........ THEN MAKE CHANGES.

Give up your job.

Give up your lifestyle.

Give up your attachments to the superficial bullshit that's been fed down your throat.

The time to do this is NOW.

If you wait even another minute, you will NOT do it because NO condition that will exist in the future will be more conducive to it than NOW.

If you're not happy, then walk away from it.

Be poor......

Be scared.......

Be uncertain about where you'll find your next meal.......

I've personally be broke without food four different times. No food, and no hope of finding it any time soon.

What's scary about this? Is it not necessary??

How is it that you'll find out how RESOURCEFUL you can be unless you put yourself in the SITUATION to find out??

Where will you find your confidence if you do not put yourself to the test??

The things I've done to get to where I'm at....... the risks I've taken would be inconceivable to most people.

But they've been necessary.

One of the core beliefs that's allowed me to do this is that I view people as not being born "alive" -- but that being alive is a state that's achieved through actions.

I view myself as already dead, and for that reason, death is not to be avoided -- LIFE IS TO BE ACHIEVED.

This small, perhaps insane, but very significant belief that I have is something that separates me from most other people I've met.

I feel that I have an obligation to see the world. The more of the world I can see, the more alive and integrated I become.

If you're a guy sitting at home, and you've seen nothing, I have no idea why you haven't risked everything to see it.

It has to be done.

YOU MUST SEE THE WORLD.

You think it's NOT POSSIBLE for you??

You're insane.

VAGRANTS do this all the time and you think YOU can't??

You just walk away. It's done.

THERE IS NOTHING STOPPING YOU.

Do you think if you walked away from everything you had, and it went back, that you'd REGRET it??

Really think about this.

In a worst case scenario, if you walked away from everything and it all went to shit, would you realistically look back on it in ten years and REGRET your course of actions??

That could never happen, because it is only through this process that your eyes are OPENED.

Putting yourself out there is never something you regret.

Never......

I just got back from South America -- landed back in the first world today, in Sydney Australia.

The perspective it's given me is priceless.

I am changed.

I feel I walk through the first world with a totally different outlook and experience. It couldn't have been achieved any other way.

Of course, I'm coming from a different mindset than most people.

I live without fear of consequences. My internal state is not easily controlled by outer circumstances so my strings are not easily pulled.

I am so satisfied with my life up to this point, that to have it end prematurely would be a price I'd pay.

I'm on this ride for as long as it takes me, and I have big dreams. But it ends when it ends. To me it's timeless. Every bit of it. I appreciate it ALL.

What does all this have to do with being successful with women??

EVERYTHING......

I have a purpose. I have a vision. I have a PERSONALITY.

I'm not another chode running the rat race, or a community guy trying to memorize a stack of technniques to avoid a blowout.

I don't get "state issues" or "approach anxiety".

That sort of thing is not even ON MY RADAR.

It's been "outframed"......

So if there are challenges in your life, do the same.

OUTFRAME THEM.

Am I being irresponsible?? What's irresponsible??

It's a matter of perspective.

And what you've read here..... This is mine.

Thanks for reading it.


Tyler