Life is good.
With flowing hair like this.... How could it be anything less?
This post will be so simple that it will naturally be overlooked.
Honestly though, to me this should demystify opening for even the most hardcore of chodes.
Alright, here's the formula.
Take the word "hey".
Or better yet, take the word "yo".
Now speaking in flat monotone (DO THIS NOW) say the word "yoooooooooooooooooo"
The reason for elongating the word from "yo" to "yoooooooooooooooo" is that the girl's brain has a chance to pick up on the state you're in.
Now think to yourself, "What are the states that I'd want to convey I'm in right off the bat?"
To me personally, it's:
Speaking with positivity, say the word "yooooooooooooooooooo" while feeling a POSITIVE EMOTION in your body.
Done properly, this should sound more positive than the monotone version.
Say the word "yooooooooooooooooooo" with a DOMINANT EMOTION in your body.
Again, done properly, this should sound more assertive than the monotone version.
Now for the grand finale..............
Say the word "yooooooooooooooo" (again -- DO THIS NOW) and feel BOTH positive and dominant emotions in your body.
This should sound like an upbeat and yet assertive "yoooooooooooooooooooo".
Now next time that you see a girl you like, approach her using that exact same opener.
Do NOT go in with a PLAN of what you'll say after that.
Be in the moment, and trust that you'll find the right direction for the conversation -- not before or after, but when and ONLY when you need it.
This part is crucial -- if you've got some plan in your head for what you're going to say next it probably won't work.
Be in the moment and let the chips fall where they may.
If the odd girl doesn't like it, go home and cry.
Now you can feel free to use whatever word you like -- be it "hey" or "yo" or "what's uuuuuuuuuuuuup" or even an actual sentence (God forbid), so long as the girl has a chance to pick up on the positivity and dominance in your voice.
This basic understanding should ELIMINATE APPROACH ANXIETY as this is such a field proven way of opening that there is absolutely no reason for it not to work.
I personally live in Honolulu and also like to throw up the "hang lose" sign with my hand, as the girl will fixate on it and give it back to me.
You can try the eighties rocker hand signal, which is also equally good.
Again, what I've written here is simple and broken down for even the most "game illiterate" individual.... :)
Take this out and test drive it TONIGHT.