Opinion Openers -- Pros & Cons

A quick overview of opinion openers here...

Opinion openers were popularized in 2003 by yours truly.

I heard the "I need a female opinion on something" on the DYD series somewhere, tested it out, and started using it as a prefix to many of my openers.

Over the next three years it became used by pretty much everybody.

These days there's a lot of questions on them......

"Are opinion-openers still cool? Are they outdated?"

Anyway, a few 100% unbiased PROS and CONS to demystify this whole deal...

(I say "100% unbiased" because I notice with openers that most people tend to have their own emotional POVs based on their personal style, rather than just breaking it down from an objective angle)

PROS:

1- You can stop big, moving groups of girls with them.

2- You can start conversations with guy/girl groups without tripping out the guy.

3- You can approach at 5AM on dark, creepy streets more easily than "Hey I'm Tyler..."

4- You can yell down girls from across the bar to come over and answer a question for you.

5- MOST IMPORTANT: It gives girls an excuse to talk to you... That goes for both lack of intelligence (many attractive girls are incapable of holding a conversation however if you give them an easy topic they can speak on it) as well as giving her to option to say to her over-protective friends "I'm just answering his question!!"

CONS:

1- Doesn't call upon the girls to be "contributive" in terms of their mental energy being expended, so can make it difficult to transition into back-and-forth conversation.

2- You may get "stuck" on the opener because you can't think of anything to say beyond it, and if you don't transition off of the opener fast enough then as soon as the convo winds down in resolution there will be a noticeable "dip" in the energy level and the girl will instinctively walk off (girls tend to interpret any dip in energy as a loss in attraction).

3- Mentally, you associate your opener as the type used by "one of those newbie newrock-wearing lair chodes" and therefore you feel like a retard using them, which causes them not to work because you lack conviction or even cringe using them... They will also come across as "fake" and "contrived" if you lack 100% congruence, and that can be tricky if the opener is not actually something you're curious to hear their opinions about.

4- Does absolutely nothing to teach you social skills in a non-anonymous/non-club environment... If you go to a party you feel a knee-jerk reaction to bust out an opinion opener which causes you to become "One of those chodes who you have to keep away from the party because he runs around spitting canned material and can't chill with people..."

5- Breeds terrible habits as a newbie because you become an IOI-junkie and can't hold your state unless you're getting constant laughs and buying temperature. As a result you're permanently blocked from ever opening by just introducing yourself (a perfectly awesome way of opening) because you're scanning for IOIs and not getting them and it's messing with your internal calibration -- even though instant IOIs off the opener are totally unnecessary.


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As you guys know I'm always evolving in how I approach women and how I teach.

I still think openers can be cool, but IMHO they *must* be mixed in and taught with a *variety* of other openers, including......

-Introducing yourself

-Opening with absolutely ridiculous comments (ala "I like salad")

-Poking the girl and just standing there staring until she giggles and opens you

-Ripping the girl over to you

-Asking questions about the environment

-Demanding she qualify herself to you (ala "WHO ARE YOU")

-Complimenting (yes, I said complimenting... it works... "go in chode and then explode"...)

-Opening by dancing (awesome... I learned it this year and *love* it)

-Making funny rocker symbols and just throwing them up to the girl

-Pouncing over to the the girl in a comical flying leap

-Waving your hands over-enthusiastically (somewhat like a retard -- hands at head level and just wave at the wrist), which is absolutely hilarious with a super hot girl who takes herself very seriously...

etc etc...

All of these are great, and most importantly, force you to BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY as opposed to looking for a guru to tell you it's good enough.

The fact of the matter is that if you believe in it, you're expressing your personality, you're saying it primarily to offer value to the vibe and not to get a reaction, and you're outside your head -- WHATEVER YOU SAY WILL WORK.

I'm cool with teaching technique and see a lot of value in it, as long as it's not conceived in the individual's mind as being the FOUNDATION for attraction -- which it's absolutely not.

The big freakshow since "the book" has been a shift in community perspective that technique is a sort of magic pill that somehow "bypasses" the need to be a cool, powerful, badass fukkin' dude.

A natural snapback has been abandonment of all technique by a lot of guys because it's associated with the weirdos who try to base their "game" around it like Dungeons&Dragons lords of the nightclub.

If you're curious about where I stand on this, btw -- I find myself in the middle, in that I teach 80% "how to be a guy who gets attraction by *being* rather than *doing*" and about 20% "technique" -- which I believe is the absolutely crucial 20% that produces immediate, tangible results.

Have fun!!


Tyler

The Title Of Today's Article Is...... 1) Live Your Life, 2) Enjoy Women's Company, and 3) Assume Absolutely Nothing

Awwwwwww isn't that video sooooo cute...... :)

You know, one of the little-known-facts about this dating community of ours is that the vast majority of guys really just want to find themselves a nice, sweet girlfriend who they can fall in love with.

I mean, there's a million reasons to have a girlfriend -- the least of which is the hot, unlimited, convenient condom-free sex.

Given the choice, usually even the most skilled of players will take the pleasant easiness of sex with a woman that he really likes over having to approach, attract, call, date, and then ultimately "close the deal" just to get laid.

The issue, of course, is that in order to GET the girlfriend that we really want we have to TAKE ON the habits of a so-called "player" -- because the fact of the matter is that a skilled player is the type of guy who is never at a loss for an awesome girlfriend.

See, to WANT a girlfriend is to guarantee that you will probably NEVER get one.

That's why you've got to MAN UP, become an individual who is autonomous and self-fulfilled, learn how to be socially-savvy with women so that you live a lifestyle of abundance, and then come from a place where you OFFER VALUE to women instead of being YET ANOTHER dorky guy who throws himself down at her feet.

Of course, oftentimes people (and women in particular) come across the type of "literature" that's spawned out of this dating community and they're instantly *appaled*.

Understandably, at times it reads alot like a "rah-rah" session with a bunch of computer nerds on the revenge-path, like "That's right women!! You will PAY for my years of rejection after I master these tactics and techniques EVEN BETTER that I mastered EverQuest and World Of Warcraft back in 2006!! Mwhahaha!!"

This proceeds to frustrate the members of the community, because it's not particularly nice to be perceived in a way that doesn't represent who you really are (I definitely have a bit of experience with that one).

...and the cycle goes on and on.

See, there's a good reason we focus more on the balls-to-the wall aspects of meeting women then the sweet, sensitive, strawberry-gumdrop parts.

For most of us, we're coming from a place of being such gushy little snuggy-bears that if we were to further FOCUS on it we might well wind up back in our old hardwired tailspin of neediness and desperation.

It's blatantly obvious that we're more or less women's BIGGEST FANS over here -- otherwise we wouldn't spend so much time talking about them... :)

The thing is, we've already spent YEARS if not DECADES obsessing over it, so when we come to the community we throw our focus instead into being A-OK *without* a woman, and actually enjoying a lifestyle of dating and meeting new people.

In my case, I know that it wasn't until I was totally happy just DATING and even BEING WITHOUT a woman that suddenly women started popping out from behind bushes and fire-hydrants suddenly wanting to be my girlfriend.

Prior to that, I couldn't have gotten a girlfriend to save my life.... :)

(Or at least without her being a part of my social circle and having to finesse it over months and months...)

Anyway, this leads me to the real MEAT of this article -- AKA the "HOW TO"......

The biggest thing I've learned about dating after all these years is that you've got to STICK TO THE SCRIPT.

That means NO EXCEPTIONS.

What is this magical "script" you ask??

It's really very simple...

1) Live Your Life

2) Enjoy Women's Company

...and

3) Assume Absolutely Nothing

AKA.......

3B) ASSUME ABSOLUTELY F-ING NOTHING.

For real, I can't emphasize this enough.

Over the years I've taken enough scrapes and bruises to know that what I've written above is absolutely true, with zero percent exceptions.

My current girlfriend is probably friends with just about every hot girl in the Hawaiin Islands. I swear, I can't meet a half-attractive girl out in public these days without her asking about my girlfriend.

Interestingly, the majority of her friends are chronically single. They can't seem to find a man to save their lives.

That doesn't mean that they can't find a man to have SEX with... They're all quite skilled at that.

One of my GF's friends even went to great lengths to explain to me how she "manifested" (ala the movie "The Secret") being single for a year by posting about it on her MySpace page.

When I asked "You mean you were CELIBATE for a year??" she say said "Yeah I was single..." I asked again "YOU WERE CELIBATE FOR A YEAR??" and she started giggling uncontrollably.

IOW (for the slow folks) she basically "manifested" via her MySpace page being on a hook-up-marathon for a year without feeling bad about it, as opposed to previous years where she did the same thing but was confused about why it was happening.

As a guy it's hard to figure out where this trend comes from...

Fortunately I'm in a very "de-mystifying" mood today, so I'll be more than happy to break this whole thing down (with a lot of sweeping generalization that you'll have to have the common sense to work through, obviously...).

What's happened in Western culture over the past 50 years is that we're in a transition between the eras of "no birth control / no job opportunities" and "free love / equal opportunity".

Logically speaking, women feel that they're "supposed" to want a guy who's a good provider, but emotionally they no longer actually respond to it.

Being a "provider" is absolutely useless for a guy at this point in history and economic prosperity.

And no, it's not "kind of useful when a girl is looking for a husband..." It is UTTERLY USELESS, or at least, it's about as important to women as a woman's finances are to YOU.

As a result, women are being more and more conditioned to be attracted to "REAL MAN" type behaviour, and seriously seriously turned off of even the SLIGHTEST sign of neediness or desperation.

Is that a "bad" thing?? Absolutely not.

It forces you to have standards about the types of girls that you'll fall in love with and stop being a little wussy-boy and MAN UP.

See, the clique of hot girls that my GF hangs with all have a specific pattern. They'll start "dating" a guy and be really, really happy. Then the guy will actually start to want more from them and develop feelings *before* the girl does, and the girl will instantly lose attraction and start chasing after the next guy who's a bigger challenge.

I happened stumbled across a classic example of this on RSD Nation today...

"I met with this girl, we hit it off well, hanging out, etc. Awesome.

Had sex, all went great, awesome.

Now she wouldn't even let me touch her, wouldn't let me kiss her and generally acts like we just met. Essentially the attraction evaporated. She just wants to be friends and she actually LJBF'ed me.

It hurt of course. I tried to go back to generating attraction, all failed, it's just not working."

Ouch!! How many times have I seen this though??

Of course, reading this might lead you to believe that women just respond to being treated disrespectfully -- AKA they "love jerks".

Is that true??

I personally don't think so.

(Or at least, some girls and some don't -- but overall I think the cooler girls think that a guy who acts like a jerk is a pretty big loser)

Like, that's a really screwed up frame to be coming from.... "I'm going to start acting like a jerk to make women like me, even though I'm not actually a jerk."

Hmmmmm..... Smells like a higher level of supplication to me.

See, where I come from -- and what had women all chasing me for a relationship for a period of about 6 months prior to choosing the girl that I really wanted -- was just being TRULY HAPPY being single and TRULY FULFILLED doing my own thing.

Back in the day I used to wind up in bed with a girl by putting on a front that I was totally comfortable with myself just being alone.

But it wasn't actually true...

I was definitely MORE comfortable with it than I used to be, and as a result I got better outcomes than I had previously. But it wasn't until I was TRULY happy living my own life that I started to experience a personally unprecedented level of success.

It's all about enjoying women's company without the SLIGHTEST shred of attachement to outcome.

Many guys can put on the act, but there's still this "thin shelack" of neediness that's coming through.

It's totally unattractive and uncool.

The absolutely key formula for attracting women in my experience is fine-tuning your mindset and personality to be the kind of guy who sub-communicates a lot of qualities that women find attractive, and then just BE that guy 100% congruently.

Doing it this way means that you don't have to put on your "upbeat guy personality" when you do your first approach of the night. You're already "ON" because you're already "that guy".

You can LIVE YOUR LIFE and ENJOY WOMEN'S COMPANY, without assuming absolutely anything.

The best way I could put it to you is this......

In all my years of knowing my girlfriend's friends, has there ever been a SINGLE incident of one of them saying "There's this guy who likes me and he wants me to get into a relationship with him and I'm thinking about settling down..."

Mehhh.... Maybe there's been a few.

A *lot* more commonly though has been "I think he might still seeing other people and I want to make him ALL MINE..."

They usually obsess and obsess and talk about it continually -- ala "Sex In The City" reality.

That being the case, it's obvious that you have to be coming from a mindset where you're 100% happy living your own life, and LEAVE THE ROLE OF OBSESSING AND PUSHING FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO THE GIRL.

(On the other hand, I think that when you come across as "not knowing what you want" or "not having the balls to say what you think" that that can be bad as well... I got my GF into a relationship with me while pulling her hair during a pounding sex session and screaming "SAY YOU LOVE ME RIGHT NOW!!" and then later saying "You're moving in here... Get your stuff... Whatever... Whatever... Just get your stuff NOW...")

Anyway, generally speaking you've got to understand that AS A MAN obsessing over being in a relationship is NOT your role. You've already had sex. What more do you want?

Ask yourself -- (and answer 100% honestly)......

"Am I just vying for a relationship because I got lucky this one time and can't figure out how to repeat the result, and I think that it might be a while until I get laid again??"

If that's the case, you're still coming from a position of total scarcity!!

Relationships with truly attractive women come from a position of abundance, not insecurity...... Point blank period.

Would a guy coming from a position of "abundance" want a relationship with a girl that he's just met??

Unlikely.

The fact of the matter is that you can ASSUME NOTHING about a girl that you don't know.

Does she have 5 other lovers she's going to keep seeing?? Does she rely on a harem of male-groupies and orbiters to get by in life?? Does she have an excessive drug or alcohol habit?? Is she an professional escort?? (seriously...)

YOU HAVE NO IDEA.

There's simply no way that you can assume to know a girl until you've known her for QUITE A WHILE.

Maybe you think that you're one of the "Hardy Boys" and that your supreme intuition and natural detective skills will allow you to know a girl that you just met??

LOL... No possibility... Girls are far too socially-savvy to be that easily read.

That's why you've just got to live your life, enjoy women's company, and assume absolutely nothing.

Life is just chalked full of opportunity and amazing things to be grateful for. There is just so much to do in so little time, and you have to have a clear-cut standard about who you're willing to share it with.

You've got to be the CEO of your own life, and the guy who hires and fires who you hang out with.

"Just Do You."

Date. Socialize. Assume nothing, and be needy for nothing.

It can only bring you much happiness.

If you take this advice..... a phenomenal, sexy, amazing woman will be in your life before you know it.

It's just a matter of sticking to the script.... :)

Have fun!!


Tyler

Awwwww... But Is Paris Really The Only One??

A few years back when I was first starting Real Social Dynamics I remember being with a buddy of mine in LA, pulling these two girls out of some trendy club.......

Instead of driving together we agreed to meet them over at The Standard on Sunset to have an afterhours meal, and then we'd see where it went from there.

It was funny because we were driving right behind them, and suddenly we see the LAPD pulling them over and giving them grief.

Sure enough these girls were being pulled over for drunk driving. We spoke to them on the phone later that night and they were freaking out about the whole thing.

Awwwwww.... :)

Still, this is a funny and unknown trend of the club scene.

In my 5-6 years of being an avid club-goer I can tell you that DRUNK DRIVING IS TOTALLY RAMPANT.

Like, growing up there were certain things that I took for granted.

Always wear your seatbelt. Do not smoke cigarettes. Never drive a car while f-ed up under the influence of alcohol.

These are like the BASIC THINGS that you can do to avoid death. They're really super duper easy.

Duhhhh...

It's funny to me how human beings can be so massively intelligent, with everything that's involved in the miracle of the brain and whatnot............ and yet simultaneously be so ridiculously, utterly stupid.

In Los Angeles especially people get to the clubs in their cars because there's no public transportation system available -- and yet they know FULL WELL that they're going to have to drive their wasted asses home drunk.

They seem to be missing a sense of cause-and-effect. They'll invariably say "It's not my fault...... I was in the middle of nowhere and I had to get home!!"

Uhhhh yeah, that's a good point, but maybe you shouldn't have gone to the club if you had no plan on how to get home other than cruising back wasted.......

IMO the whole girls drunk-driving thing comes as a part of the package with the invicibility-complex that's so common with being hot.

As a hot girl you can talk your way out of just about anything. People make exception for you. This becomes MENTALLY PROJECTED onto the idea that if you drive into a phone pole or oncoming vehicle it'll still be OK.

(I want to note, btw, that YES guys are just as guilty of this as girls are...)

I know that 90% of all my girlfriend's hot friends drive inebriated or even totally drunk on a very regular basis. And yes, I'm proud to say that even my own innocent-looking little sweetheart had an outstanding open-bottle ticket when I met her, which apparently was from being a passenger when her cousin was caught driving under the influence.

It was a strange for me being new to clubbing and pulling girls out of clubs to their cars, and I'd be thinking to myself "She's not drunk is she?? I'm sure she wouldn't be offering to drive us if she was drunk......"

IME clubber girls tend to be VERY GOOD AT HIDING THE FACT THAT THEY'RE DRUNK and oftentimes you can't tell until they're totally wasted. If you've ever had a flakey phone number from a girl who you thought was in love with you -- you've just got your answer as to why it probably happened.

I've learned over the years to NOT get into a car with a girl who's wasted, and to 100% INSIST that she allows me to drive her car.

I'd encourage you guys to do the same thing, as NOTHING is worth getting your face smashed up for.

Anyway, I think it's cool that this Paris Hilton thing has brought some attention to the issue.

I'm sure that her time in jail will probably be one of the most important things that ever happens to her, as it's going to force her to slow down and take heed of her own life.

I know personally that the toughest things I've been through have in many ways defined me as an individual and allowed me to be the person I am today, and I think that Paris will probably have the same experience.

Incidentally, I actually felt BAD for her when I heard that she might be avoiding jail.

Seriously.....

Experiencing challenges that TEST and CHALLENGE you are THAT IMPORTANT in my personal opinion.

Paris is going to have to decide on how she takes the experience. She'll either find the spiritual lesson contained in the experience, or come back feeling all victimized.

I'm really pulling for it to be the former for her, and I'm optimistic that she's a resourceful enough girl that it will be.

Or would that more accurately be described as "naive".....??

I guess we'll have to stay tuned...... :)


Tyler

Getting Into The Cool Clique... Is It Really What You Thought It Was??

It's a funny thing when you set out to become good with women......

If you're coming into the community as a "nerdy" or so-called "not cool" guy, you start out just wanting the utter pain and loneliness of not having a girlfriend to go away.

You're not thinking in terms of personal TRANSFORMATION and DEEP IDENTITY LEVEL CHANGE......

No way.

That stuff's confusing... Vague... Mind-exhausting...

Not to mention it would take waaaaaay too much time -- and that crappy feeling you're dealing with is something that you need to get rid of RIGHT NOW.

At first you look towards the variety of "magic pill" solutions, probably thinking that if you can memorize and calibrate a series of lines or techniques that you'll somehow generate the attraction to make women want you.

Of course, over time you realize that this gets a lot of women giggling and chatty but at the end of the night they don't actually want to HAVE SEX with you.

From there you deduce that if you can get MORE LINES you'll somehow keep the conversation going for longer and longer until the sex just somehow "happens" -- but that doesn't work either because the whole idea of it is totally ludicrous.

(BTW I think having great lines is awesome... It's just that it's the sizzle on the steak, not the steak...)

The "elusive obvious" of course, is that you just haven't become quote/unquote COOL as of yet...

You haven't yet become a dude who a prospective girl can bring around her friends and count on to make a good impression (or even jealous...) -- and the fact is that she just doesn't feel like it would be a big boost in her sense of validation to sleep with you.

From your perpective this doesn't really make sense...

It's like, what do these so-called "cool" people have that you don't??

Is it that they say the word "BRO" to eachother a lot?? Is it that they drink more CORONA'S than you do??

I mean, the whole "who is cool" and "who is uncool" thing is in many ways so absurd and ridiculous that if you grew up with major interests outside of socializing you may well have never fully bothered to wrap your head around it.

To a logical guy, the whole glass wall that separates you from the "cool" people can be very hard to understand.

--> Why is that when you go to a hot nightclub that all these so-called "cool" guys seem to be having a lot more fun than you??

--> Why is it that when you talk to them you just feel like what they're saying is somehow better than what YOU have to say??

--> Why don't they want to hang out with you, but will hang out with other so-called "cool" guys??

Truth be told, the whole "cool" thing is waaaaaay blown out of proportion in Western Culture.

Especially when you consider that there's like a huge portion of the population who walk around essentially traumatized from their High School days where they never got the privilege of being "popular" or "cool".

Still, this stuff is like ROCKET FUEL for attracting women.

Women respond to guys who are obviously "popular" and "cool"... Duuuh.

I often say that if you're a "cool" guy who clearly appears to be "popular" you've got like 2/3s of this whole game fully locked down.

The upside to all this is that if you just do what you're supposed to do and actually stick to the script (ie: go out regularly) -- you WILL inevitably become "cool".

It's just a matter of time and social experience.

There's another level though, that I think a lot of successful guys often fail to attain -- and that's to come full circle and realize that BEING COOL IS REALLY NO BIG DEAL.

I think when you grow up feeling like the popular kids have a great deal of power over you that it takes a period of decompression to fully "internalize" that you actually ARE as cool as these so called popular folks.

Like, you can sleep with countless women and STILL feel yourself a little uncomfortable when you're around the type of guy who would have made fun of you in High School.

You might even harbour a secret feeling that you're "infiltrating" their cliques without their knowledge, or a desire to sleep with their girlfriends and get them to take it on the face -- all in the act of venting a sort of pent up hostility you're dealing with from back in High School.

Back in the day I'd love to demonstrate how to steal the "popular" guys' girlfriends and makeout with them right under their noses.

At the time my mindset was like "These are the same guys who would've done this to me back in the day......."

Naturally, this became a well-known feature in the bootcamp reviews as it represented a certain level of mastery in the game -- despite that it's actually a surprisingly easy thing to do.

The thing is, over the years I've come to evolve my way of thinking quite a bit......

I'm not really coming from that place anymore......

I don't think it's an overall very cool thing to teach or do, EVEN IF it IS ultimately up to the girl to make her own decisions about what she wants.

(Exception: sometimes the girl is obviously up for it, and sometimes she even *needs* you to help her to resolve to get out of a bad relationship... that's a whole 'nother article...)

And you know what??


While I won't makeout with another guys' girlfriend in front of him anymore, my *overall* skillset with women has improved very obviously because I don't feel any hostility towards these guys anymore.

I don't feel like an outsider. I'm don't feel like I'm a nerd with a scheme to infiltrate their magical cliques.

The truth is that these people are just REGULAR FOLKS who never exerted any power over me --> I just handed it to them without them even wanting it...

All of that pent up anger...... it was really just an outwardly directed frustration at my own shortcomings.

Oftentimes it's only after you've used the insane momentum to improve so friggin' much that you literally BLOW THESE GUYS AWAY that it finally "clicks" that you're not only as cool as them, but that you actually feel kind of sorry for them...

It's like you've spent a decade preparing to go back and fight the kindergarden bully, only to realize that you weigh a 150 pounds more than him and that you just made him this big hobgoblin fictional character in your mind.

I mean really, people are just people..........

Chances are, any time they've ever made fun of you was just coming from a place of the SAME insecurity that YOU were dealing with..... and they just had a different "strategy" for coping with it.

I really think that deep down, most people are actually really, really positively intentioned.

It's just a point of seeing it, and seeing past the social personas.

Over time I think that your "self concept" DOES catch up with the "social skills" you get from massive amounts of going out.

And once it does, it's a really beautiful thing.

You become a natural. You become a guy who offers value. And you come to walk with total ease in your environment and in the world.

That's it for today.... Thanks for reading this and being cool!!


Tyler

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I Have My Own YouTube Vid??

Just came across this video recently, and you can't imagine my massive surprise.

I've seen fan remixes on various subjects on YouTube, so it's a trip for me to find out that I now have one of my own.

If you're the guy who created this vid, thank you, and please don't hesitate to get in touch.

BTW if you're curious "What is Foundations??" -- here is your answer.......

"Foundations" is basically the SuperConference that I refined for over 4 years, running it in multiple cities all over the world. It's the one that you've read about over the years in all the Reviews.

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I'd say that it falls somewhere between "Old RSD" and "New RSD" -- and what I like about it is that it's basically all the most "tried and tested" stuff that I know will always be relevant and used by the best guys, while bridging into the new stuff that you read about on this blog.

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I also want to thank all the people here who've ordered it already, as it supports our organization a great deal and allows us to keep producing higher and higher quality programs and products.

BTW I've also got a few articles in the pipeline. Thought I'd share this just to keep the blog current and let y'all know I'm still alive... :)

Any questions, let me know.......

Tyler